" Ross equipped me with the tools to learn to love myself, to powerfully erase self doubt . . . "
Wow! Ross has made such a difference in my life. People would normally see me as professional, well put together and an expert in my field. That's what I wanted them to see. What they would not see is the struggle behind the scenes. Thinking I am a fraud, asking myself who am I to make a difference and hiding out. Ross was with me every step of the way. Ross equipped me with the tools to learn to love myself, to powerfully erase self doubt and move from the "idea" of me being someone who impacts others to the vibrant unstoppable Stephen that is in the spotlight featured in mainstream media empowering people and making a difference. Thank you Ross! I highly recommend Ross to all my friends, family and clients.
Dr. Stephen de Wit DHS, MPH, ACS
" . . . he truly makes miracles happen for families . . . "
Ross Gordon is a powerful, effective, loving and compassionate man who has an extraordinary ability to listen to people and provide them with the perfect coaching for their situation. Over the last four years, Ross has coached me on matters concerning two of my children.
Four years ago my daughter texted me that she did not want me to be her mother anymore. It was a devastating text to receive and I called Ross for coaching. He was able to have me calm down, create love for myself and for my daughter. His commitment to our relationship had him keep reaching out to me over the months and asking how it was going. There were many times when he coached me through my stories and judgements about my daughter so that today she and I have a very close, loving relationship. The mean, petty and cruel behaviour on both sides has disappeared. She is now 23 years old.
Just over a year ago one of my son’s was going through a very difficult break up with his girlfriend who was abusive and stalking him. I was extremely frightened and worried for my son’s safety. Ross was able to calm me down and get freed up so that I could offer my son the support he needed without being a frantic, terrified, overprotective mom. I was able to let go and trust that my 25 year old son could handle his life and take the actions he needed to take to be safe. Ross kept in touch with me, reaching out every month or two and providing me with exactly what I needed to be happy and free with the situation. Through this experience, I learned to not try to fix things for my son, but to give him the encouragement, love and acknowledgement he needed to move on in his life.
I am so grateful to Ross for this and he truly makes miracles happen for families with his kind, caring and relaxed approach. I highly recommend Ross as a life coach.
Patti Ann Trainor
"Ross quickly gets me back to a centered place and feeling great about myself."
Ongoing coaching from Ross helped me regain power in many areas of my life as I go through the challenges of running a business and being a mom. When new challenges present themselves, my leadership can falter. I doubt myself, not sure of the "right" thing to do, and I can become fearful of taking action if I let myself stay too long in the "what if's".
Coaching from Ross quickly gets me back to a centered place and feeling great about myself. From that place, it becomes easier to just take on the leadership role with gusto instead of dread. The challenges become more of an adventure than an insurmountable problem. Even if things might not be perfect and there are hiccups along the way, I see myself as someone who is awesome, capable, joyful and able to lead the people around me through whatever the challenges are.
"He's helped me get back to my normal, cheery self."
There came a point in my life a little over a year ago when I was experiencing some challenging struggles - I was depressed, unmotivated, resentful and lonely. And although I knew logically that I just need to "snap out of it," I simply couldn't, and I suffered silently for months. When I started working with Ross, he simply listened. He listened with compassion and love, and without judgement or blame. As a coach, he gently guided me into a place where I could experience my own value, and come to know what I can contribute to the lives of others. He's helped me get back to my normal, cheery self. Since then, he's been there to coach me through all the everyday challenges in life, from taking an action that I've been procrastinating on, to preparing for a difficult conversation with someone in my life. It's been so much easier to do it with his guidance. I think back to that time when my world felt dark, and I'm so grateful that Ross was there to help me through it. I couldn't have gotten here without him.
"I was able to let go of feelings of unworthiness . . . "